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The Business of Belief: Why We Believe What We Believe in Business and Life
The British economist John Kay wrote, “I am irresistible, I say, as I put on my designer fragrance. I am a merchant banker, I say, as I climb out of my BMW. I am a juvenile lout, I say, as I down a glass of extra strong lager. I am handsome, I say, as I don my Levi’s jeans.”
What do people internalize when they interact with you? What image does your idea help them conjure up about themselves? Your audience aches to believe that you “represent” them and that you’re in it for, and with, them. Your ability to reach outside of yourself, and connect with them in a meaningful and reflective way, demonstrates this bond.
You’re them. They’re you. Connect your passion and purpose to their passion and purpose. Relate your unique view of the world and your place in it to their unique view of the world and their place in it. They long to see themselves and their unique needs in the reflection of your carefully polished idea. They crave your humble, yet confident and wide-eyed passion for the possible. They want you to display personality and to be vulnerable and human, like them.
Bill Cosby once said, “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.” Being reflective is ignoring everybody and being one with your audience. It’s about regarding them the way they regard themselves--as insiders, collaborators, and protagonists of the idea.
It’s feeding their spirit, giving them a sense of belonging and adding to their feeling of identity by being special and standing out. Reflective helps people experience the most powerful feeling in the world, “It’s not just me who feels this way. I am not alone.”
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You make a great point, Tom. An organization can create an emotional connection to it with a brand image. And, a large part of this connection involves letting an individual see how he or she can identify with a brand's values.
Posted by: Tumbleweed | December 01, 2011 at 12:55 PM
You have such a nice way of expressing this Tom. Being reflective of your audience sounds so much more inviting than the phrase "brand positioning". Yet aren't they essentially the same idea? But of course, the language does count, because it betrays our intentions toward the people we serve.
Posted by: Jon Pietz | December 06, 2011 at 09:22 AM
Hey John,
Thanks for the compliment. And great point about brand positioning.
Positioning, as it's practiced by most, is about creating a perception of differentiation in a target audience's mind through imagery and communication. The process focuses on the brand and its needs, and is pushed out to the audience.
Reflection, on the other hand, starts with the audience. It's a process that hinges on awareness and empathy, and is meant to connect with one's audience in a passionate AND compassionate way for their benefit.
Posted by: Tom Asacker | December 06, 2011 at 05:18 PM